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[VIDEO] Duncan Nugget® #12: Paralyzed By Choice

Feb

“I have so many things I could do that I don’t know what I should do!”

Students and professionals say things like that all the time. I understand why.

In a famous research study, more people stopped to taste jams at a table with 24 flavors, but more people actually made a purchase at a table with 6 flavors.

Having too many choices exhausts your brain, stifles creativity, and kills motivation because you end up feeling overwhelmed and develop a fear of making the wrong choice.

When it comes to dreams, goals, and aspirations, most people aren’t suffering from a lack of choices, they’re suffering from lack of ability to make a choice.

Successful people do their research, make a choice, and adjust based on the consequences. They refuse to be paralyzed by choice.

Million-Dollar Question:
How determined are you to avoid being paralyzed
by the fear of making the wrong choice?

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DISCUSSION QUESTIONS



 

[POSTER] The Path To Success

Feb

Man…I wish I figured this out sooner. The path to success looks like spaghetti.



 

[VIDEO] Duncan Nugget® #179: Old Excuses

Jan

New year.

Old excuses.

Man…it seems like some people are just destined to be LAME.

Million-Dollar Question:[break]Are you still making the same old excuses[break]in a new year?



 

[VIDEO] Duncan Nugget® #149: The Aspects Of What You Expect To Accomplish

Dec

Recently, a friend of mine gave up on his business.

“Al, I wasn’t prepared for the financial aspect of running a business.”

He’s not alone. Many people fail to reach their goals because they lack understanding about aspects of what they are trying to accomplish.

Plenty of great musicians have been taken advantage of because they didn’t understand the business aspect of the industry. There are leaders who expect to be successful, but become demotivated because they weren’t prepared for challenging aspects of leadership.

Regardless of what you expect, ask yourself questions like: What do I have to sacrifice? Time? Money? What problems could arise? What additional knowledge and resources do I need?

Answers to those types of questions will help you to master the aspects of what you expect to accomplish.

Million-Dollar Question:
How well are you prepared for the various aspects of what you expect to accomplish?

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ACTION STEPS AND DISCUSSION QUESTIONS



 

[VIDEO] Duncan Nugget® #190: Fire Hazards And Flammable Material

Nov

People spend way too much time putting out fires in their lives. I’m talking about preventable, avoidable problems that end up becoming a raging inferno of destruction in your life.

It makes no sense.

If you want to spend less time putting out fires then get rid of the fire hazards and flammable material in your life.

If all of your friends are idiots…duh! That’s a serious fire hazard.

Spending money you don’t have, procrastination, and other bad habits like those are flammable materials. They can cause your dreams and opportunities to go up in smoke.

If you spend a little more time getting rid of the fire hazards in your life and keeping flammable material away from your goals and aspirations, you’ll spend less time putting out fires.

Million-Dollar Question:
How soon are you going to remove the fire hazards and flammable materials in your life?


DISCUSSION QUESTIONS

1. What are the top 3-5 little problems that become big problems because people don’t take care of them right away?

2. What steps do YOU take (or should you take) to prevent little issues and bad habits from becoming major problems in your life?

3. What you do when a person is the problem in your life? What would you suggest to a friend who was trying to keep “people” problems from messing up his or her life?



 

Blind Teen Running Races Thanks to Guide Dog

Oct

Wow! Determination. Inspiration. No Excuses. Period. Check out this story:

Blind teen keeps on running, thanks to guide dog – TODAY Health – TODAY.com



 

[VIDEO] Duncan Nugget® #155: The Mis-Use Of Courage

Oct

I was talking to a student who lost the school mascot in a prank-gone-bad:

“Look man, just go in there and apologize. Man up.”

“Naw. Can’t do that. In front of the whole class?! Naw… everybody’s gonna be laughin’ at me.”

A lot of people are fearless when it comes to things they shouldn’t do, but scared to death when it comes to things they should do.

Think about that.

People do crazy things in the name of fun, machismo, the male ego, or when it’s time to “tell somebody off”, but some of those same people have no heart in other matters.

How about having enough courage to step out of your comfort zone?

How about having enough heart to apologize and the fortitude to to accept full responsibility for your life?

Uh-oh…I think I just saw courage run out the door.

Million-Dollar Question:[break]Are you using your courage for the right reasons?



 

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