[VIDEO] Duncan Nugget® #40: For the Haters and the Doubters
Here are a hater…there a hater…everywhere a hater, hater…
Grrr…
They are everywhere aren’t they?!
Yes, they are.
I’m fired up because a good friend of mine on Facebook is all distraught right now. He feels like everybody is hating on him. This is what I explained to him:
For some reason the more successful you become, the more haters you have. I don’t know why it works like that, but it does.
Even though you already know that people’s opinions shouldn’t really matter, when someone is constantly shooting down your dreams and hating on you, that can be painful and challenging but…
Regardless of what anyone—especially haters and doubters—thinks about you, realize that…
A person’s definition of you does not define you.
If you know that someone is a hater,
why should you care what he or she has to say?
HINT: You shouldn’t!
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(Adapted from My Success Journal for Young People)
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