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[VIDEO] Duncan Nugget® #245: Single Point Of Focus

Nov

“Here’s a question for you… What did you do when you hit that point where you knew you were doing things to make a difference but, it just didn’t seem like it was enough? What kept you motivated and focused so that you weren’t thinning yourself out trying to be apart of to many causes?”

Two things:

1. Great leaders are seldom, if ever, satisfied. They are always tweaking things to become more efficient, effective, and productive. They are always striving to do better. They always feel as if there is more to be done. More progress to be made. So, if you feel like that…congratulations.

2.

Duncan Nugget #245:
Focus is difficult to achieve because
it requires sacrifice. It requires you to give something up in order to accomplish more.

One day it finally dawned on me that most successful people and great leaders have a single point of focus—one main thing that they are obsessed with getting done. They may be busy doing other things and have other interests, but they are still honed in on that single point of focus. Ultimately, they refuse to allow anything to get in the way.

Million-Dollar Question:[break]What’s your single point of focus?

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[I was asked this question via the National Society of Leadership and Success Facebook page.]



 

Touchdown In a Wheelchair?!

Nov

Wow… how cool is this?! Touchdown. In a wheelchair. Awesome.



 

[VIDEO] Duncan Nugget® #214: Potential and Performance

Oct

How much is your potential worth?

Nothing. Unless…

…you combine it with exceptional performance.

You might get praised for your potential, but you only get paid for your performance.

You might get noticed because of your potential, but you are remembered for your performance. Whether it is pitiful or exceptional.

Million-Dollar Question:
How much is your performance worth?



 

Blind Teen Running Races Thanks to Guide Dog

Oct

Wow! Determination. Inspiration. No Excuses. Period. Check out this story:

Blind teen keeps on running, thanks to guide dog – TODAY Health – TODAY.com



 

[VIDEO] Duncan Nugget® #155: The Mis-Use Of Courage

Oct

I was talking to a student who lost the school mascot in a prank-gone-bad:

“Look man, just go in there and apologize. Man up.”

“Naw. Can’t do that. In front of the whole class?! Naw… everybody’s gonna be laughin’ at me.”

A lot of people are fearless when it comes to things they shouldn’t do, but scared to death when it comes to things they should do.

Think about that.

People do crazy things in the name of fun, machismo, the male ego, or when it’s time to “tell somebody off”, but some of those same people have no heart in other matters.

How about having enough courage to step out of your comfort zone?

How about having enough heart to apologize and the fortitude to to accept full responsibility for your life?

Uh-oh…I think I just saw courage run out the door.

Million-Dollar Question:[break]Are you using your courage for the right reasons?



 

[VIDEO] Duncan Nugget® #32: Slippery Things

Jun

Imagine if you had a million dollars, but you forgot where you put it and no matter how hard you tried to remember where you left it, you couldn’t find it.

I know…you would never do that, right? But what if you did? How mad would you be?

Most people lose or forget at least one priceless thought or million-dollar idea every week. Sometimes, they don’t even remember that they can’t remember. Think about that. It could be something someone said to you or an idea that came to you while you in the middle of something else . Either way…

Thoughts and ideas can be extremely slippery.

Always keep a note pad or digital recorder with you—or use your smartphone—to capture priceless thoughts and million-dollar ideas before they slip away.

And then…do something with them!

Million-Dollar Question:
Aren’t you tired of watching other people get paid off of a million-dollar idea that you let slip away?



 

[VIDEO] Duncan Nugget® #113: Cause or Effect?

Jun

Many individuals only operate in response mode. They are in constant violation of the supreme law of the universe: Cause and Effect. They continuously sit and wait for something to happen. Then they respond. Maybe.

Not cool.

Remember the Otis Redding song, Sitting On The Doc Of The Bay?

Sittin’ in the mornin’ sun.

I’ll be sittin when the evenin’ comes.

Watchin the ships roll in. Then I watch’em roll away again…

It made a great song, but it would make a jacked up life.

Successful people are the stimulus. They are the cause. They make things happen. Other people and the environment respond to them. Think about that.

Million-Dollar Question:
Are you an effect or a cause; is it happening to you or are you making it happen?


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