So, how’s it going this week? Busy as usual? All kinds of stuff driving you nuts as usual?
Okay. Here’s the deal. It’s time for your one minute of chillaxation. (Translation: chill + relaxation)
On the way back from a gig in Brooklyn, N.Y., my flight was delayed. Same old story, right? Nowadays it seems as if I have a better chance of seeing a two-legged dog walking upright like a human than I do of seeing an entire round trip flight with no delays. As they say on Twitter:
Before a recent speaking engagement, a superintendent of schools and I had a conversation.
“We’re glad you’re here. These students need some motivation.”
“I’m here to help, but I don’t really motivate people.”
“What do you mean? You get students motivated. That’s why we hired you.”
“Don’t worry. They’ll be motivated. I’ll do what I do best—give them tools to motivate themselves.”
“Oohhh… Well…I guess that’s even better!”
Yup. That is better because the person who is waiting for someone or something else to motivate him will be left behind.
It’s your life. Get motivated. From within. Self-motivation, also known as intrinsic motivation, is a valuable asset on your path to success.
Being self-motivated is one of the top characteristics that employers want in their employees. They want self-starters—people with initiative.
Self-motivation could be part of your competitive advantage.
Are you sitting around waiting for
somebody else to motivate you?
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If you are going to start, make it a good start.
I know… “Duh!” Who doesn’t know that, right? But yet and still many people fail to set themselves up properly. The following questions are ideal for helping students, educators, parents, and other professionals working with young people get off to a great start at the beginning of the school or program year.
You and the group you are working with should answer these questions in writing. They will make for a great group discussion.
1. Why am I here? Why am I going to school, work, or participating in this program?
If your answer is “Because my mom made me,” or “I have to,” I have one word for you: lame.
Your why is your single point of focus. It’s different then a goal, it’s the reason you remain motivated and determined to meet your goals. It’s what drives you to do what you do. The stronger your why, the higher your level of determination and motivation. So, you gotta have a strong answer to this question. It should be your reason, not someone else’s.
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Any great cook or professional chef knows that it’s best to start cooking when the pot is hot.
That goes for ovens, pans, and grills, too. They should be the ideal temperature when you start cooking. This small, vital step is one of the secrets to cooking a great dish.
It works the same way with ideas or things you want to get done. The best time to build momentum is when you first think of an idea or start on a task. The motivation is there. The excitement is there. The desire is there.
The pot is hot.
Take some immediate action steps that you can use to measure your progress. Wait too long and your pot gets cold. The motivation is gone. The excitement is gone. The desire is gone. Not cool.
Million-Dollar Question:[break]Isn’t it time for you to start[break]cooking up some more success?
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It’s common knowledge that when people obsess over “things not being perfect” it can cause them to become frozen with the fear of failure. Still, many people still struggle with it. So, what can be done about this?
Whenever I’m struggling with whether or not to implement a plan or idea because “it’s not perfect” I take a look at great leaders and entrepreneurs who launched services and products that weren’t perfect. The one who has been coming to mind as of late is Jeff Bezos, founder of Amazon.
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I’m standing 3 feet away from my 5-yr old son, Mekhi. I call him. He doesn’t answer. Hmm…
I say his name a little louder, “Mekhi!”
Still no response. Grrr…
Believe it or not, he still doesn’t respond. I’m thinking, “Oh lord! My child is deaf.” But that’s not it. He can’t hear me because he’s watching his show. He’s focused.
If you’re a parent, you’ve experienced this. If you have parents, you’ve done this!
You’re probably thinking, “That is not focus. He was ignoring you.” Ha! I can see where you’re coming from, but wait. Isn’t that what focus is?
The ability to ignore anything that has nothing to do with the task at hand.
HINT: When engrossed in something you are passionate about, you have that ability.
Million-Dollar Question:[break]What are you so passionate about[break]that you ignore all distractions and[break]focus on the task at hand?
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